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  1. I babysat my little cousins a lot and other children when I use to live back in my home town Parham and also years later In the city.
    And yes children can be rambunctious, and ive been physically beaten and injured by children due to their restlessness.
    But I found out that children get excited when their parents leave and if the baby sitter is young the children think the sitter is cool and will let them act inappropriate.
    That’s why you must be firm yet calm and fun and keep them under control.
    My young cousin would stay with me and his parents where shocked at how well he behaved when he was uncontrollable with them.
    I would even give him small energy drinks and he would be fine when his parents would give him pop and he would go crazy.
    He also never needed his ADHD and sleep medication, he had to be on medication for his disruptive behaviour and uncontrollable nature, when he was with me he never took any of it and said he did not need or want it, but as soon as he was back with his parents he needed the medication because he was so out of control.
    The reason why was because I listened and paid attention to him, I never treated him like he just a child or tried to tell him what to do, I gave him options and did not use my authority to make him comply.
    I always talked to him without dismissing him and let him express himself without restraining him and aloud him to be himself.
    When he went back to his parents he told them how much he loved me and how I treated him like he was a person not a insignificant child, he was amazed because I cooked for him rather then give him some junk so I did not have to do anything or apply any effort.
    Children know when you look down on them or try to make them feel incapable or incompetent.
    I gave him proper attention while never rejecting his feelings or his needs but also made sure he knew that I would not tolerate inappropriate behaviour by never getting upset but telling him that I knew he was more grown up then that when he acted out and that I was not upset but that I would be disappointed in him and he knew when I was so he would do his best to be good.
    Also when I babysat both my cousin Gage and his sister Bee I always gave them both the same attention and always was equal with them, if they did something wrong I treated both of them the same and neither got away with anything the other did.
    I also let them chose things for themselves and allowed them to ask me anything and always answered them never dismissing them or ignoring them.
    The children said that I treated them better then their parents did and that they felt I loved them more then their parents because they never listened and treated them like they where an inconvenience always getting frustrated at the first sign of disruption and punishing them rather then take the time to listen or try to work with them.
    Children want to be treated with the same respect as anyone and when their parents treat them like they are burdens and as if they are unwanted because they are treated with such lack of tolerance a child feels unwanted and anger for not being treated fair so often they act out.
    Treat child like they are actual people not your own possessions that must abide by your every command, they can make decisions for themselves and they know when you are unwilling to take the time to listen or care and when you treat them like they have no clue about anything and are to stupid to think for themselves.
    If your child is uncontrollable it’s most likely because they are being treated like a slave and told what to do without choice and not being given the basic rights of a human being.
    Children are aware when you are constantly losing your control and can see when you treat others better then them.
    Parents feel children have no common sense or awareness and are treated less then they are and disregarded as just a simple child who are unable to do anything.
    Treat your children like they are wanted and not like you own them because you don’t their human beings not a dog.

  2. I was on a walk with dog named max when I saw this abandoned house that I have never seen before so I went to check it out when I went in it smelled like a dead animal so after looking around I saw there was a stairway up stair so I went up and I saw what looks like a dead animal so I want closer and I saw this 8 feet tall rat with big red eyes and blood all over its body in the corner my dog went to attacked the thing then the rat thing grab it with its big sharp claws and bit his head off I went to get out but then it grabs me and before I could it bit my hand off then I got out and ran off and that is all that I can remember

  3. Yeah the one where the girl used the fire poker at about 18 minutes, the fact you didn't call the police and she thought that would be scarier than what's going on at the moment makes me want to beat the f**** sense back into her! What a dumb dumb girl! Oh my God it sounds like the worst babysitter ever when it comes to protecting your kids! Yeah she might have saved the one girl but what an idiot beyond that! Yeah she basically gave him a weapon now and didn't call the police because now she's weapon listen has to fight him off well nobody's coming to help! God I'm so angry at the story! She would never babysitting again if people in that town found out and thank God for it!

  4. Martin can u tell me the name of this bk ground music your useing please dease sounds ralax me peyano an other instruments are nice can someone send me the names. Thank you😉
    And I love the videos keep up the good content 👌

  5. 18:10 you decided not to call the cops because u get nervous? Even when ur life is at stake, The lives of innocent children are at stake, and ur worried abt being nervous? Make it make sense

  6. Love the stories but Please stop posting stories about animal abuse it’s very traumatizing .. Im afraid I will unsubscribe if it’s more frequent in the future… too traumatizing sorry being an animal lover

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